ESTP · Se-Ti-Fe-Ni

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Introduction

This ego development profile is supplementary to the _Type Development Guide_. You are advised to read and understand the principles of ego development before using this profile, otherwise, you are likely to misinterpret and misapply the ideas.

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ESTP Functional Stack: Se-Ti-Fe-Ni

Core Values: autonomy, pragmatism, action
Strengths: live for the moment, action-oriented, adaptable, responsive
Weaknesses: easily bored, restless, disruptive, instigator of mischief
Shadow Conflicts: Si seen as dull, pointless, a distraction from here and now; Ni seen as concerned about insignificant/impractical things; Ne seen as impractical, ungrounded, intangible

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ESTP Process of Ego Development

Level 1: Self-Protection Mindset

distorted Se: chaotic, abrasive, opportunistic, hedonistic, talk over others, fail to listen, forceful, blunt, offensive, purposely create crisis situations or drama when bored, viciously mock/embarrass others

distorted Ti: rationalize/justify bad behavior, care little for consequences, oblivious to feelings/reactions of others

under intense stress or in the grip of Ni: throw tantrums, become violent, risky behavior (daredevil tendency), delinquent behavior, purposely push people’s buttons, unmotivated, cannot commit to anything, overindulge; deny being confused and out of control, unaware of others’ needs, misattribute meaning to situations, adopt some grandiose vision or higher meaning in order to fill inner void, fear the future

Level 2: Social Identification Mindset

Se: need to maintain ego image as entertaining and fun; seek out opportunities to stand out or get attention through mischief; enjoy being the focal point of a group but not necessarily the leader; unaware of the feelings, motivations, reactions of others

ego defense: very judgmental about differences; mock those who do not fit in

Level 3: Selfhood Mindset

Se: spontaneous, responsive to problems, can-do attitude, energetic, enthusiastic, notice details, gregarious, straightforward, practical, action-oriented, competitive; can feel the urge to show off; can be impatient, restless, unappreciative, easily distracted, arrogant, stubborn; lack motivation to complete tasks

ego defense: impulsive, thrill-seeking, easily distracted, ignore downsides or limitations of actions, manipulate rules or oversimplify things to suit their own needs

see F preference as too involved, weak, subjective; see N preference as being out of touch with reality

Level 4: Conscientious Mindset

Se: observant, practical, realistic, specific, active, analytical, sensitive to immediate needs, take measured risks, rational, enthusiastic, inclusive, fun, make tough decisions, help others out of tricky situations, encourage others to be creative yet pragmatic

start to notice blind spots like: poor attention to longer term consequences; cannot see hidden meanings, implications, or patterns; inability to work alone or persist with routine or repetitive tasks

ego defense: still feel confined by schedules/routines; resentful towards any “shoulds” present in their surrounding environment

start to see some value in F and N preferences as long as they do not go too far against their own preferences; more interest in understanding others; can accept “valuable” negative feedback

Level 5: Self-Insight Mindset

Se: troubleshoot, resolve conflict, adaptable, easygoing, perceptive, tactful, fair, energetic, playful

Ti: more likely to consider outcomes and consequences; more focused and purposeful with actions

start to see more value in F and N preferences; feel more comfortable with stillness and contemplation; more mindful of inner processes; become better mentors

access to Fe: can consider and account for the needs of others

Level 6: Authenticity Mindset

Balanced Se+Ti: expedient, resourceful, autonomous, adaptable, inventive, can simplify complexity, identify ways to improve systems and bring fun to teams/groups; motivating, optimistic, encouraging

less need to defend their ego image of being the focus of attention, carefree, spontaneous

can start to use F and N preferences appropriately; more in tune with themselves and able to just “be” with people without needing constant stimulation or excitement; more mindful of the future

access to Ni: can plan for the future, less fear of future possibilities, more appreciation for the unknown, set priorities better, learn to listen to their own intuition

Level 7: Wholeness Mindset

realize that the need for excitement and action is driven by ego

accepting of differences; value other perspectives, especially recognizing that it is important to consider “what might be”

can integrate S, N, T, F preferences; freed from black and white thinking and able to see a “third” viable perspective to work from

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